Exploring the world of subs and doms? Stay safe… we talk about it here…
In free societies niche pastimes in this case experiences are much more openly available than in many more closed societies. This makes these niche clubs so to speak much more transparent and the opportunity to increase the prevalence of following health and safety regulations is much more possible. Compare to this to heavily underground, deeply hidden groups and fraternities who exist completely off radar in the “dark society” so to speak. Talking about these sectors and talking about health and safety with members is much more common and concerned outsiders can be more at peace in a sense that we know that the principles of health and safety are circulation and being applied in niche personal activities and pastimes such and “submissive” and “dominance” lifestyle. Which is actually a very popular niche pastime.
Known in a shortened version as Subs and Doms this personal experience / lifestyle is taken up by choice by many people. It is in fact sought out regularly by new members who have realised that they do in fact which to be in “submissive” and/or “dominant” within their own intimate relationships. Rather affectionately a “dominance” seeker could be called the “master” or “mistress” whilst the “submissive” could be called the slave for example. So this can take many different levels of intensity… and like all human practices perhaps there are those who are not sure whether their intensity seeking is perhaps going to far.
That is why the acceptance by wider society of these practices is actually an opportunity to raise awareness of health and safety in this case in the area of fetish dating. With so many people leading caring and loving lifestyle in which they are enjoying expressing their “Submissive” and /or “Dominance” intimate fantasies making available health and safety helpful notes and descriptions of what to do to be safe in a range of circumstances.
This is actually no different to any kind of dating. Remaining safe or exiting unsafe practices is just the same as all dating online or physically. Knowing who you are meeting. Verifying the data they are giving you on age, height, occupation, name, location of residence. Conducting tests online through the dating site messaging services. Being very careful before that first meet up to be sure that you are safe. Meeting in a busy public place. Not revealing your home address, and even not giving out your contact numbers without first vetting the person you are speaking to!
Once the safety check list is being implemented then you can be much surer about the person you are meeting. Do they understand that “No” means “No”. Are they in charge of themselves mentally and making sensible decisions. The safety checklist actually helps reveal important personality traits about those you are potentially meeting up with. Finally with the growing numbers of people openly having “Subs & Doms” experiences the opportunity exists to find people with whom you can safely engage in these pastimes and even have that online record of communication and also make friends who can look out for each other… at all times but especially around that first meet up date… where a lot of first impressions and meetup subliminal information will be garnered.
So just talking about things and having things in the open, the sites for this niche sector are quite accessible online, very easily found actually and a thriving community! So have fun, explore and make friends too!
Take the sensible precautions and then you can have a really super range of experiences!
Very best wishes!
InTouch Rugby Dating Editor
