Exploring the world of Senior Dating and choosing between dates and life partners….
Having a lifetime of experience in dating and relationships, a mature adult may reflect on their life and say I have lived a good and decent life I have raised a family, I have worked. I have provided for my family and I have been there for loved ones in need. I have acheived my potential. I am not perfect but overal on the balance of things I have lived a good life.
Being a moral upstanding and decent citizen takes dedication and in todays world this includes a very wide variety of lifestyles and approaches to living in which mature experienced adults are making choices to remain decent. To remain pillars of their communities valuing the concept of honest hard work. Of raising families and being there for others and educating those around them and being honest and open about life and how they live.
This includes senior citizens who are senior swinging. They are dating multiple partners. They are meeting with multiple partners in loving environments. Senior mature adults in their 50s, in their 60s, in their 70s and 80s and beyond are vibrant dynamic energetic fit and outgoing active citizens. They are dating multiple people and meeting with multiple dates at the same time. They are open about it, its common knowledge and within those “societies” so to speak the rules are observed of security, of authorised contact and consentual activities. These free and equal citizens are agreeing to really just let things happen and that anything really goes and as long as people are consenting then its totally fine !
Deeply loving senior couples (who could be called older swingers) are also in deeply committed romantic realtionships. Relationships in which they have raised children and been married for 30, 40 and 50 years and are at the same time dating multiple people. Also, these dates change over time and at times they will swap dates and you know they are totally fine about this and actually would not have it any other way!
These deeply loving relationships include multiple other people and through all of this, and in the main, people discover incredible freedoms to love and enjoy life and to be body positive and to give the gift of body positivity to others!
Additionally these mature adults find that they have a much wider group of pooled resources to call upon in problem solving scenarios! One previous partner could be a plumber and if their is a plumbing emergency at home they can come round and fix it and date at the same time! So its super convienant and provides almost constant enjoyment of life even in emergency scenarios!
Everyone has boundaries even those who have no boundaries have boundaries ! In the sense that soemone could only really feel confortable if their are no boundaries and that is really their boundary ! They only feel normal when there are no boundaries! So when people like this find each other they can fall deeply in love!
Finally and in all scenarios! Be sensible, always have your consentual boxes ticked. Is the person consenting, are you consenting!
When meeting new contacts always cary out security checks, think about where you are meeting. How many people are there. Have you vetted out the hygiene side of things this is all of utmost importannce!
Once you have all your safety checks in place then please enjoy!
Very Best wishes!
InTouch Rugby Realtionships Editor
