Trying to figure out what you can do for New Year’s Eve and even thinking about meeting new people!
Perhaps you are looking to have a more “naughty” experience. Or series of experiences. This is totally ok and so many people are totally open minded about this. Many people are going away to cities that have areas which are known to provide many different “naughty” possibilities. They have night clubs, specialist events, and even art installations and video art happening on new Year’s Eve. But how can you increase your chances of having the experience you want! Well.. the most important thing you can do in our opinion is develop according to the overall themes of our 10 pointers below!
So! Here is our list of 10 activities to do on New Years Eve (and prior) that will increase your odds of meeting someone that night.
1.Make sure to meet people during the year so that you will have lots of going out options for New Years Eve and even tee’d up meet ups in advance!
2. Ideally you could be meeting several people at separate times and then working around those to find the best fit for you for New Years Eve. There are so many options with point 1 because the more people you meet the more successful you will be!
3. Make sure that you are superbly groomed and dressed impeccably. This cannot be over stated. Again you can be practising this throughout the year. This factor includes reading all the latest blogs and watching all the coolest youtube podcasts. From this eclectic mix you will form a picture of what is most fashionable and the events to wear different clothing to.
4. Make friends with people who are good at fashion and know what clothing and accessories are totally on point. This is so helpful. Your ideal friend of this type will even be attending or blogging from the latest fashion events.
5. Practise you own style and build up your confidence to the point where you will assert yourself, your values and your boundaries. Practice and develop the confidence to be your own person.
6. If you are an individual less confident people will be critical. Others will say oh he or she … their eccentric. The truth is however that the fundamental building block of western societies is individualism, and so developing your reasoned opinions, your own fashion, and your own interest is the best way to be an independent person.
7. Reject the old 1950’s media such as Television as those paradigms are completely out of touch. Retain however the great things from history because those never change, such as fashion, poetry, classical music, real art like Constable.
8. Bring this appreciation of history up to date and mix and blend the very best in life together into your own interpretation that includes modern technology!
9. Get online dating. Be an adult and join an adult dating site like no strings dating
10. No matter what your opinions are on the sex dating site phenomena and your definition of that you are really being adult and honest. Intimacy and sexual interaction are a normal part of every day life for adults. Being responsible means seeing things for what they are. Of course when you are independent and confident then you will be able to cope. Its much better to do this in the open understanding of what everyone has joined the sites for!
Ok! This concludes our recommendations for new Years Eve, and meeting someone that night!
Take simple precautions. Even think about having company with you at events and have a text alert message in case you are in danger. This could mean going to the toilet and texting your friend from there so as not to draw attention. Read up on real life and online safety.
Most importantly we do hope you have a wonderful New Year’s Eve and a wonderful New Year.
Very Best Wishes. The InTouch Rugby Events Correspondent On Assignment.
